Collection: Pull-/Isolation-Reasons

Wenn man ein Mädel zu sich nach Hause isolieren will (z.B. ONS, Day2) ist es immer geschickt einen „sozial annehmbaren“ Grund für sie zu haben um mit dir mitzukommen (ASD vermeiden!)

Manche werden sagen „Scheiß drauf, ich mach einfach caveman und führe sie zu mir nach Hause.“ aber ich finde es leichter wenn man „etwas“ zu tun hat. Sie kann dann die Verantwortung auf dich abwälzen und erzählen „Es ist einfach passiert, wir wollten nur nen Film schauen.“

Am besten funktioniert es wenn man während dem Gespräch „seeds“ setzt, wie timebridges für einen Tag2, welche man wieder aufnimmt bevor man den bounce zu sich nach Hause vorschlägt.

Credits gehn auch an effigyc der auf mASF ein inspirierenden Post geschrieben hat.

Essen. Hab immer was zu essen im Haus. Eiscreme, Kekse, Spaghetti

Getränke. Hab immer Sekt, Wein, verrückte-tabasko-shots, Coctails zum anbieten.

Filme. Immer ein paar DVD’s zu Hause haben die man in Konversationen over-hypen kann. (Cars, 300, Kung-Fu-Panda)

Ruchen. Ich rauch ab und an gerne mal ne Shisha, manche Mädels auch…

Spiele. Witzige Brettspiele, Kartentricks, usw…

Musik. Du hörst verrückte Musik die keiner kennt, oder hast ihr Lieblingslied auf Platte?

CD brennen. Konversationen schweifen oft in Musikthemen ab, brenn ihr eine CD…

Fotos. Du bist viel gereist, hast schöne Bilder von Partys.. Frauen lieben Bilder.

Internet. Wieviel Zeug fällt dir ein was man ner Frau auf Youtube zeigen kann?

„Now here is a critical juncture. I didn’t ask her if she’d like to come up, I
didn’t suggest it as an idea, I simply took her concession that she’d like to
hear the music and applied it to the reality that the only way we’ll be able to have that happen is for her to come up to my room. Of course, she knows what the real idea is, but she’s a chick and needs a context other than “let’s go upstairs to fuck.” Secondly, I didn’t hesitate. I simply went into LEAD mode. I get out of my stool, and say “OK, let’s go listen to it upstairs” and started walking and leading her physically by using TokyoPUA’s KAMI (Kino Anchor Motion Inducement) method – I basically touch her on the arm where I anchored before and nudge her along with me. Between that and the break state of immediate motion, she can’t help but want to come along with no resistance.“ formhandle, mASF

english version…

If you want to pull a girl back to your place, you are well advised if you have some „harmless“ reason for her. So you don’t trigger major ASD. Sure, some may say „Fuck that, i just go caveman and lead her to my place!“ But i found it easier to pull if you have a „thing to do“. You (both) know its to have sex, but she can afterwards tell her friends „It just happened, we just watched a movie…“

So i collected some „pull-reasons“ you can use, sometimes she wont go for „food“ but is happy if you „show her some pictures“…

Remember, it works best if you plant some „seeds“ during the conversation. They work a lot like timebridges, to which you refer later, if you suggest a bounce to your place.

Credits and thanks for collecting and inspiring to effigyc, … (masf/ddd post zum sammeln?)

Food. Have some ice-cream, cookies, stuff to cook with her

Drinks. Have some champagne, wine, fancy-tabasko-shots, coctails to make or serve.

Movies. Have some movies at home which you over-hype in conversation.

Smoke. I like to smoke a hookah (shisha) once in a while.

Games. Have some fancy games you can show her. Board-Games, Card-Tricks,.. you name it.

Musik. You listen to crazy unknown bands, you both love goth-rock-minimal-electro, invite her to listen.

Burn a CD. Conversations often turn to music, sometimes you hear stuff they’ve never heard of. Why not burn them a CD?

Photos. If you’ve travelled a lot or shoot some party-pics. Girls always want to see those.

Internet. How much funny shit can you think of to show girls on youtube? (type in “clitter”)

Now here is a critical juncture. I didn’t ask her if she’d like to come up, I
didn’t suggest it as an idea, I simply took her concession that she’d like to
hear the music and applied it to the reality that the only way we’ll be able to
have that happen is for her to come up to my room. Of course, she knows what
the real idea is, but she’s a chick and needs a context other than “let’s go
upstairs to fuck.” Secondly, I didn’t hesitate. I simply went into LEAD mode.
I get out of my stool, and say “OK, let’s go listen to it upstairs” and started
walking and leading her physically by using TokyoPUA’s KAMI (Kino Anchor Motion
Inducement) method – I basically touch her on the arm where I anchored before
and nudge her along with me. Between that and the break state of immediate
motion, she can’t help but want to come along with no resistance. „formhandle, mASF„